KePaLa HaNgIn..

itu aku (sambungan tajuk) aku bukan jugalah nak percaya tapi tak salah kot baca..sebab dah jumpa..bace jela..ni aku copied kat blog dia..

Falsafah orang tua tua 1

• Anak sulung tak sesuai berkahwin dengan pasangan anak sulung. Alasannya, dua dua ada sifat yang sama macam manja dan keras kepala.

Falsafah orang tua tua 2

• Anak bongsu kena elakkan mencari pasangan yang sama sama bongsu gak. Alasannya, dua dua bongsu ni sukar nak kawal situasi. Anak bongsu  juga perlu elakkan berpasangan dengan anak tunggal. Konsepnya same, je dua dua sama sama manja dan perlukan perhatian

Falsafah orang tua tua 3

• Anak sulung serasi dengan anak tunggal. Dengan syarat, anak sulung tak boleh begitu tegas orangnya sebab anak tunggal selalunya manja. 

Falsafah orang tua tua 4

• Anak tengah yang berpasangan dengan anak tengah dikatakan serasi, sepadan, merpati dua sejoli ! Pasangan ini saling melengkapi sebab salah seorang mesti cenderung macam anak sulung dan seorang lagi cenderung macan anak bongsu. - Sumber -  

macam aku cakap tadi la..aku bukan nak percaya sangat tapi kalo ko fikir balik..ada benarnya juga..sebab aku anak sulung so aku ley comments part ni jela..hmm memang hubungan anak sulung gan anak sulung agak mencabar..sebab akan wujud perebutan kuasa aku rasa..hahah..mcm dah jadi kerajaan-pembangkang la plak..sebab dua2 yang jenis mendominasi..dan jenis lantang bersuara..keras kepala pun ya juga aku rasa..so memang kena banyak sabar la kot..tapi nak sabar tu la ya payah..hmm..kena plak dapat kepala hangin mcm aku ni..adehh..nazak wei..


tp part anak sulung kahwin gan anak tunggal tu aku suka..sbb tunang aku anak tunggal..manja la jg ckit2..hehehe..i love my fiance..eee


hmm..k tu jela..aku nak smbung wat koje aku..3 AJK dlm satu majlis..cayalah yana..tp aku rasa anak sulung lebih bertanggung jawab n boleh buat kerja..sbb tu org suka suro aku..hahah..cet tak de kaitan..blah la ko yana..tapi anak sulung belom tentu tau masak..eee..


p/s - Usaha + Doa + Tawakal + Redha = TENANG.. kadang aku rasa untuk sesetangah perkara ada eloknya buat tak peduli daripada peduli..yeke..ntah la..kdg2 aku rasa ya..kdg2 aku rasa tak..hmm byk plak kadang2 aku ni..huhu

whAt You Give..yOu gEt bAcK..

dah brape hari dah aku tak update blog sbb malas..tp hri ni, aku update jua..sbb team aku..aku penat takyah cakap la..sebab beli barang persiapan kawen..huhu..balik2 rushing bukak tv nak tgk team aku main..kalah menang adat bertanding kata orang, tapi memang la aku harap team aku menang..tapi takde rezeki plak..tapi kalo ikutkan analisa aku buat memang 50-50 peluang tuk menang..

walaupun kalah its ok..sekurang2nya kalah bermaruah kate orang..sbb at least berjaya ke final juga kan? =) sekurangnya berjaya kalahkan Kelantan yang Selangor yang kononnya hebat..erk..emo la plak..mmg aku emo pun..hahaha..pape pun terengganu dan manaf mamat tetap di hati..love..love..love..cuma aku bengang sikit gan keeper tu r..since suku akhir g aku tak minat tgk dia main..kalo org trgnu kate..gong guh dia tu maing..hahaha...

buat sang putera yang hansem lagi berskill Abdul Manaf bin Mamat..lu memang terbaik la bro.. memang aku suka gila tengok mamat ni main..ada peluang cerah..aku doakan karier dia sbg bintang bola sepak terus mekar bercahaya..aku suka ko mcm tahap aku suka Lionel Messi da ni..huhu

hansem ..sbb muka dia muka melayu..kulit sawo matang..badan pun smart..eerk aku ni puji lebih2 mcm la mamat ni kenal aku..hohoho..dan da macam Lionel Messi dari tepi..hahah..psiko aku ni..

semoga terengganu terus berjaya..amin!!! tak lupa juga kepada

Ashari..mamat ni kurus2 pun berbisa beb..

p/s - aku ni tak tau la jnis kasar ke apa..tapi kalo org main kasar gan aku..aku main kasar juga la..automatik aku cmtu..sebab tu pepatah Melayu da cakap jangan dijolok sarang tebuan..heheh =) tido daaaa..

mAkaN dALam

don't pray for an easy life but pray to be strong..

just reached home just now from N.9..tired but satisfied..unpacked all my stuffs and started packing my stuffs again for attending course at Malacca tomorrow for 3 days and 2 nights..

well,it's been a rough time lately..and i'm lack of "semangat" when most all of my planned not went well..thank you for those who are still excited  and "semangat" to do it..they gave me some strength to survive and to cope with all those failed situations..easy to say that i don't like win-win situation..and starting from today, i told my self that i don't want to think or plan anymore..because its something like you are digging your own grave or you are hurting your own heart..so better just keep it into your heart or your mind..i only can write my dreams in my diary with hope, one day  it'll come true..but the reality is, my dreams never come true..just stick with that young woman!!!!!!!!!nothing goes wrong..it just not happen.. 

most of my friends said saya bukanlah seorang yang byk songeh atau nak ni nak tu..tapi sekali sekala saya akui saya berkelakuan begitu dan berkeinginan begitu, tapi bila semua yang saya impikan dan ianya mungkin hanya sekali je boleh berlaku dalam seumur hidup saya, tp tak dpt dilaksanakan..saya rasa kecewa smpi sy tidak mampu untuk menangis (crying is one way how i heal myself) so just be strong because i know my life, not easy as yours people!!!!!!

p/s - i am so grateful to have the time to think that everything happens for a reason and have the time to change and built our ways around it..perhaps..kepada kamu2 yang Allah permudahkan segalanya, yang Allah tunaikan impian-impian silalah bersyukur..

oHhHhhhh..

ni aku minum kopi from blog kakak KPLI IPG aku dulu..

Initial Stage (Romance)
The initial stage of a relationship is when two individuals have just come together. At this point of time, both of them see the world through rose-colored glasses. You love everything about your partner, even the most irritating habits somehow seems nice. He/she seems to be the perfect person in the world, who cannot do anything wrong ever. The whole world revolves around your partner and you hardly have time for anyone else. In fact, nobody else, not even your best friend, seems important at the moment. As the effects of the first stage seem to wear off, you shift to the next stage.

Eye-opener Stage (Reality)
After a considerable time has gone by, your partner does not seem so perfect after all. (betul3) Slowly and gradually, the negative aspects of his/her personality start surfacing. Both the partners start behaving more like themselves and the ‘best-behavior at all times’ thing goes into the drain. Now, you don’t like spending the entire time with your partner and in fact, feel the need for space and freedom. It is the time to go back to the other people in your life, including your best friend. You concentrate more on correcting the bad habits of your partner, which results in constant nagging. This is amongst the most crucial phases of a relationship, which can either lead to a strong and mature relationship or a break up. (ok honestly crucial)


Stability Stage (Maturity)
If you have successfully managed to pass the ‘eye-opener stage’, the road ahead will become much smoother. In this stage, both the partners realize that their so-called ‘better half’ is a normal individual, with positive as well as negative aspects. From the ‘I will change you’ concept, you come to ‘I accept you as you are’ concept. The idea of perfection slowly begins to dissolve and acceptance starts gaining ground. The partners start thinking practically and realize that adjustment is the key to a successful relationship. Still, the transition is not so easy (i swear the transition is not easy)and the slightest slip can make them go back to the second stage.

Commitment Stage (Totally Practical)
If a couple manages to maintain the maturity stage for a considerable time, without slipping to the previous one, commitment is the most obvious result. By this time, they have totally accepted each other, without any efforts at brining about any change. You realize that partners complement each other and not complete each other (cuba jadikan peganggan) Minor tiffs are usual and in fact, necessary for keeping the spice in the relationship alive. However, the ‘we break off’, ‘you don’t care for me’, etc phrases do not form a part of the relationship. This is the time when you love your partner for who he/she actually is and not for what you think he/she is.

Marriage Stage (Romance once again)
All the successful relationships end in marriage. The partners have gone through all the ups and downs and no longer live in the world of fairytale or bookish romance. They know that life is not picture-perfect and find love in each other’s company. Marriage brings about the phase of honeymoon, when all the romance of the first stage comes back once more. The only difference is that this time the partners are mature and the rose-colored glasses have come off. Though there might be slight problems because of the added responsibilities and living together 24/7, none will be too big to handle. It’s the time to enjoy the results of the efforts both of you have taken to bring the relationship to this stage.

huh..lenguh bace, rasanya aku baru ada kat stage 3 kot..hmm ssh tau ada hbgn yang melibatkan hati ni..tapi kalo alone pun ssh juga..secara jujurnya setakat ni aku sukakan friendship daripada relationship..sbb most of the time relationship ni melibatkan banyak hati yang perlu dijaga..lagi2 kalo hati2 tersebut lain2 citarasa..kang bila aku dah fed up..lantak la semua aku tak peduli..tapi setakat ni Alhamdulillah aku normal lagi la..tak psiko..Alhamdulillah..skrg aku paham la kenapa orang kate bertunang banyak dugaan..lebih baik buat tak tahu daripada amik tahu..tapi sampai bila????? 

source : google..erk..hahaha..aku la ni..

=)

p/s - there's only two option when you're in a relationship, getting married or breaking up..

WoRdleSs WeDnEsDaY..

have done two..one more left..struggling 

p/s - mudah je nak taip kalo mesyurat tu memang betul2 berlaku tetapi bila kena sihir2 ni yang payah..aku yang tersihir..hahaha..psiko2..

RabU yAnG sEnyAp

my current obsession before i'm off to bed 

hee

konon2 nak wat entry wordless Wednesday..tapi tak jadi sbb rasa nak menulis..hoho..padahal minit mesy dua lagi blom siap kot..huhu..xpe mlm ni masih ada..2 3 hari ni just ulang alik kursus..bgs gak kalo kerja pagi ni..after 2.00 pm dah free so you can settle many things..boleh pergi bank, celcom branch, cake house, bridal shop and book store.. 

habis kursus minggu ni, next week smbg lagi kursus kat Melaka you..macam terkebil2 je tadi mata aku bila baca mesej dari Fariz aku kena pergi sekolah amik surat panggilan kursus kat Melaka 23-25.10.2011..erkk..kcian anak2 murid aku..terabai 2 minggu..

my 24 hours obsession..guess what?

A. the beach B. the yacht C.the sand D. the man..hehehe

its not good to miss someone now..it's Maghrib time..Let's perform our solat =)

p/s - i'm so excited for all the good things 

FrIdaY bLuEs..

wah2..title mesti nk glam je aku ni kan..heheh..hari ni produktif gak la..sbb boleh kemas rumah atas bawah dapur depan siap mop semua n lagi extravaganza dapat arranged barang2 kat bilik dengan new arrangement..more wider than before..yawww

again a good exercise for you neck..LOL

its look like this but still in progress while this picture was taken

McD in the Friday evening with someone who called me, I am a stalker..erk..whatever..the real menu for me not Happy meal but Quater Pounder with Cheese..but then, i forgot to snap the picture of the burger because i was too busy ngap the burger..hehehe

everyday n every second..hohoho

nice view 

my school with new look

SK Kg Chabang not SK Kg Chebang..

NOTED!!!!

owh when talking about school remind me of "bunch of works" that i need to do it..i'm not complaining..i just reminding my self..Cik Liyana (not valid anymore next year..hoho) you have an abundance of works..so please take some action..huhu..it's all about back dated works..but its ok..since next week ialah minggu berkursus n luckily the place just near..so i believe i have tendency n potential(pemilihan kata yang tinggi) to finish it..

hmm dan aku bangga sbb dapat tahu content sebenar..sblm ni takde org ajar n bagi contoh..since ak kena replace tmpt org..ak kena start dr mula buat fail tu..ramai juga yang senasib gan aku..hahah..walaupun nampak mcm PK HEM aku tu cerewet tapi dari sudut positif dia sgt la sistematik..aku suka!!! kerja dia ni mmg susah skrg tapi menyenangkan di kemudian hari..so aku tak rasa benda ni membebankan dan best bila dia guide dan clearkan aku tntg failing yang aku blur2 selama..well cikgu dan pengkeranian ibarat upin n ipin..so close..chill!!!! need to submit before 3rd of Nov 2011 =)

banyak cakap plak aku ni..bwk2 tido la coz esk nak g dating lg with my cousin..its all about wedding preparations..my formula weekdays = working n weekend = weeding ..need to divide it properly..good night peeps =)

p/s -Dengan nama Allah yang Maha Pengasih lagi Maha Penyayang Ya Allah..Seandainya telah Engkau catatkan..Dia milikku tercipta buatku..Satukanlah hatinya dengan hatiku..Titipkanlah kebahagiaan antara kami..Agar kemesraan itu abadi..Ya Allah..Ya Tuhanku yang Maha Mengasihani..Seiringkanlah kami melayari hidup ini..Ketepian yang sejahtera dan abadi..amin..